Why men cry & women don't care a damn...

I observe people well, don’t ask me how, but it’s just a god given talent that I have. I know when two people are in love, when two people are fighting, when people are confused, when people are angry, I just have this innocuous ability to detect a minor change in the tone of a person that is different from normal & relate it to an emotion.The other day I saw a couple in the office cafeteria, a pretty strange sight, a guy crying & the girl consoling him. This holy sight is not something you see everyday.Men are pretty vicious creatures. Crying to them is an act of emotional subjugation of their women. It’s their version of emotional blackmail. Say for example you say "my parents have started looking out for a guy for me”, he says "I need more time”, you say "how much longer?” he does this. One tear from the corner of the left eye, which would be the most melodramatic half tears you would ever see in your life, now he says "you know where I’m now. What would I speak to your parents? You know you are the only one I have in my life (as if he was born orphan!!".then comes the next half tear from the right eye, now the girl is sinked.she brings him closer to her chest & the guy very merrily smiles to himself.hmm...My dear ladies, its time you stopped trusting these croc tears. You are & will be much stronger than any man. I mean you just have to look at a man & he knows what you want & does it. See that’s extra sensory perception. I mean women hardly need to lift a limb to get things done.Ok to be fair to my brothers, it’s sort of true that men are very emotional. The hard as hell outlook to the world is just a mask. Most, that is 99.9999% men are weak inside. So women know this & take advantage of this. Aren’t they wise my dears? Women sometimes choose such guys too & when it gets too emotional they dump them, you know like that piece of trash that u segregate as recyclable & non & dump it in the green or red bin, men are the green ones. Recyclable you see...And yes break ups hurt men more; women seem to just move on faster. Probably they have too many distractions. Like that next recyclable guy waiting in the line, who looks like a mama's boy.Also men who dump women are weird jerks. I got to know a wonderfully pretty girl a week back. I mean "SHE IS WONDERFULY WOW”. And I couldn’t believe that some guy could actually dump her. The reason was his parents wouldn't accept it. I mean man, what all are you going to ask permission from your people for?? Aren’t you mature enough?? I mean mom can I pee in the morning?? Can I use these color undies today?? Go take a walk u dumb ass****.Lady he doesn't deserve you, I have hardly spoken to you for a day but my gut feels that you are different, special. To you I quote this

No More Tears
Barbra Streisand & Donna Summer
________

It's raining, it's pouring
my love life is boring me to tears,
after all these years

No sunshine, no moonlight,
no stardust, no sign of romance
we don't stand a chance

I've always dreamed I found the perfect lover
but he turned out to be like every other man
our love, our love

Raining (raining)
pouring (pouring)
there's nothing left for us here
and we won't waist another tear

If you've had enough,
don't put up with his stuff,
don't you do it
If you've had your fill,
get the check pay the bill,
you can do it

Tell him to just get out
nothing left to talk about
pack his raincoat show him out
just look him in the eyes and simple shout

Enough is enough is enough
I can't go on, I can't go on, no more no
enough is enough, is enough
I want him out, I want him out that door now

Enough is enough

If you've reached the end,
don't pretend that is right
when it's over (It's over)
if the feeling is gone
don't think twice just move on
get it over (over, over)
tell him to just get out, say it clearly, spell it out

Enough is enough is enough
I can't go on, I can't go on, no more no
enough is enough is enough
I want him out, I want him out that door now

Enough is enough

I've always dreamed to find the perfect lover,
but he turns out to be like every other man
our love (I had no choice from the start)
our love (I've gotta listen to my heart)
our love (tearing us apart)

Enough, is enough, is enough
I can't go on, I can't go on no more no
enough, is enough, is enough
I want him out, I want him out that door now

Enough is enough

No more tears (no more tears)
no more tears (no more tears)
no more tears (no more tears)
no more tears (no more tears)
enough is enough is enough is enough is enough is enough
I've had it, you've had it, he's had it, we've had it
enough is enough is enough is enough is enough is enough
I've hat it, you've had it, he's had it, we've had it

I always dreamed I find the perfect lover
But he turned out to be like every other man

I had no choice from the start
I've gotta listen to my heart
tearing us apart

Enough is enough is enough
I can't go on, I can't go on, no more no
enough is enough is enough
I want him out, I want him out that door now

Goodbye mister, goodbye, goodbye mister, goodbye sugar

It's raining, it's pouring
there's nothing left for us here
and we won't waist another tear

No more tears
is enough is enough is enough is enough
is enough is enough is enough is ENOUGH!!!

Go take on that recyclable guy & avenge that guy’s mistake. Some men folk are just not worthy of such amazing women. Some men are like dogs, they go "oh, I smell fresh stuff, what season is it?”. You now know why there are so many cross breeds.

How to make a woman happy!!

The million dollar question..here are the answers In the world of romance, one single rule applies: Make the woman happy. Do something she likes, and you get points.Do something she dislikes and points are subtracted.You don't get any points for doing something she expects. Sorry, that's the way the game is played.Here is a guide to the point system:
SIMPLE DUTIES
You make the bed (+1)
You make the bed, but forget the decorative pillow(0)
You throw the bedspread over rumpled sheets (-1)
You go out to buy her what she wants (+5) In the rain (+8)
But return with Beer (-5)
You check out a suspicious noise at night (0)
You check out a suspicious noise, and it is nothing(0)
You check out a suspicious noise and it is something (+5)
You pummel it with iron rod (+10)
It's her pet (-10)
SOCIAL ENGAGEMENTS
You stay by her side the entire party (0)
You stay by her side for a while, then leave to chat with a college buddy(-2)
Named Tina (-4)
Tina is a dancer (-6)
Tina has silicon implants (-80)
HER BIRTHDAY
You take her out to dinner (0)
You take her out to dinner and it's not a sports bar (+1)
Okay, it's a sports bar (-2)
And it's all-you-can-eat night(-3)
It's a sports bar, it's all-you-can-eat night, and your face is painted the colors of your favorite team (-10)
A NIGHT OUT
You take her to a movie (+2)
You take her to a movie she likes (+4)
You take her to a movie you hate (+6)
You take her to a movie you like (-2)
It's called 'DeathCop' (-3)
You lied and said it was a foreign film about orphans (-15)
YOUR PHYSIQUE
You develop a noticeable potbelly (-15)
You develop a noticeable potbelly and exercise to get rid of it (+10)
You develop a noticeable potbelly and resort to baggy jeans and baggy Hawaiian shirts (-30)
You say, "It doesn't matter, you have one too." (-8000)
ENJOY THE BIG QUESTION
She asks, "Do I look fat?" (-5) [Yes, you lose points no matter what]
You hesitate in responding (-10)
You reply, "Where?" (-35)
Any other response (-20)
COMMUNICATION
When she wants to talk about a problem , you listen, displaying what looks like a concerned expression (0)
You listen, for over 30 minutes (+50)
You listen for more than 30 minutes without looking at the TV (+500)
She realizes this is because you have fallen asleep (-10000)
Now what chance do you have???

Kaapi to Cappuchino .....!

Reminds you of all the changes that we go through as a part of "growing up"..sorry people most of it is in tanglish

He even kills the language!!!

Can the English language survive after Bush?most of you would have read this before..but i jus cant get enough of this man's control of english..funny it happens to be his mother tongue too!!

"The vast majority of our imports come from outside the country. "
- George W. Bush

"If we don't succeed, we run the risk of failure."
- George W. Bush

"One word sums up probably the responsibility of any Governor, and that one word is ' to be prepared '."
- George W. Bush

"I have made good judgments in the past. I have made good judgments in the future. "
- George W. Bush

" The future will be better tomorrow." George W. Bush

" We're going to have the best educated American people in the world."
- George W. Bush

" I stand by all the misstatements that I've made."
- George W. Bush

"We have a firm commitment to NATO, we are a part of NATO. We have a firm commitment to Europe We are a part of Europe."
- George W. Bush

" Public speaking is very easy."
- George W. Bush

"A low voter turnout is an indication of fewer people going to the polls."
- George W. Bush

"We are ready for any unforeseen event that may or may not occur. "
- George W. Bush

"For NASA, space is still a high priority."
- George W. Bush

"Quite frankly, teachers are the only profession that teach our children. "
- George W. Bush

"It isn't pollution that's harming the environment. It's the impurities in our air and water that are doing it."
- George W. Bush

" It's time for the human race to enter the solar system."
- George W. Bush

God help America .

Well..

She's fading away
Away from this world
Drifting like a feather
She's not like the other girls
She lives in the clouds
She talks to the birds
Hopeless little one
She's not like the other girls I know

No more shame, she has felt too much pain, in her life
In her mind she's repeating the words
All the love you put out will return to you

Why?Why?Why??????????

Why doesnt the whole of India have a good stream less 2mbps internet conn?
Why is the place so screwed up with reservation and caste?
Why do i have to pay 1200+ bucks as taxes to a 1rs air ticket?
Why dont i get Bacardi Limon everywhere?
Why are some torrents so slow?
Why am i not going for the Aerosmith show?
Why are good people always in a mess?
Why the hell are so many freaking languages in this country?
Why are cocktails so darn costly?
Why are all good looking women committed?
Why are some people so snobbish?
Why wasnt i born 50yrs back?
Why dont i jus get a stupid car?
Why does life have to be so freaking boring?
Why arent stags not allowed in discs?
Why are our thoughts censored?
Why do arranged marriages get screwed up?
Why arent all days fridays?
Why does the canteen food suck major?
Why dont they serve chocolate in canteens?
Why cant some people jus speak plain english?
Why do people have to bomb mosques and churches and temples?
Why isnt basic education free?
Why are there so many poor people in this world?
Why do i need a wikipedia?
Why do i need to dress so stupid formal to work?
Why do i need to get married?
Why study?
Why education?
Why relationships?

Tell me why...

Life of late has taken a tumble down boredom..everyday seems to be a horrible nightmare..gosh..i wish i was in chennai jus to know that if u got no work to do you can go home and sleep,be online,go to the temple/beach/city centre..the f*ing city of pune is so goddamn boring and work is another horrible shoot..if wishes were flowers..

Moi es back..

you are aqua #00FFFF

Your dominant hues are green and blue. You're smart and you know it, and want to use your power to help people and relate to others. Even though you tend to battle with yourself, you solve other people's conflicts well. Your saturation level is very high - you are all about getting things done. The world may think you work too hard but you have a lot to show for it, and it keeps you going. You shouldn't be afraid to lead people, because if you're doing it, it'll be done right. Your outlook on life is very bright. You are sunny and optimistic about life and others find it very encouraging, but remember to tone it down if you sense irritation.

the spacefem.com html color quiz

ha..ha..well quite a way to start of a new year on my blog..sme1 sent this link to me and this what i found out abt myself..sounds interesting

The one i love..

Haven't slept in a week
My bed has become my coffin
Cannot breath, cannot speak
My head's like a bomb, still waiting
Take my heart and take my soul
I don't need them anymore

The one I love
Is striking me down on my knees
The one I love
Drowning me in my dreams
The one I love
Over and over again
Dragging me under

Hypnotized by the night
Silently rising beside me
Emptiness, Nothingness
Is burning a hole inside me
Take my faith and take my pride
I don't need them anymore

This bed has become my chapel of stone
A garden of darkness to where I'm thrown
So take my life, I don't need it anymore

In my life..

Feel the heat below my feet

I have to go, no time to sleep
Can't believe the things you say
I turn my head and walk away
You make me sick - you make me nervous

Times had gone when you would say
This is the one and seize the day
Times had gone for honesty
My victory is your defeat
Can't you see you've been mistaken

In my life I decide and it turns me on,
How I am, how I live, who I love
In my way I feel strong and it turns my on
In my life, I decide, I decide

I decide

I decide

All you do you can't deny
It's waste of time, waste of life
Can I suggest that you invest
In something more than hopelessness
Before you know the ride is over

In my life I decide and it turns me on,
How I am, how I live, who I love
In my way I feel strong and it turns my on
In my life, I decide, I decide

It's up to you if you give it up
It's up to you if you won't stop
It's up to you if you give it up
It's up to you if you won't stop

It's up to you if you give it up, give it up
It's up to you if you won't stop
It's up to you if you give it up, give it up
It's up to you
It's up to you...

The record shows that you're dead but you're still living
Every time you have died you have been given
Another chance to fix your bad attitude
And make a move, it's up to you

It's up to you if we give it up, give it up
It's up to you if we give it up, give it up
It's up to you
It's up to you
YOU...

Give it up
Give it up
Give it up
Give it up

Give it up
Give it up
Give it up
Give it up

Aaaaarrrrghhhhh...

The last week of my life has been such a useless waste of time. Doing the same routine sec after sec is such a tiring activity. Let me list it down for the unlucky souls who may be reading it

• Get up at 7
• Wake up and wonder why it gets dawn by that time.
• Brush the teeth long enough to make it the winning entry in any contest at any point of time and curse that the hair is soo curly after sleeping.
• Try to off load some stake in the physical equity which is very tough doing so in the place of disinvestment that is very new.
• Take a bath that would put a bird to shame.
• Dress up like a Barbie doll.
• Eat dosas.
• Start leaving for work with the ever efficient hari on his bike till RS Puram.
• Take the silly 7 route which believes in going around the world in 30mins to go till race course that is 10mins away.
• Open the only computer in which the interesting network is available.
• Log on to google, personalized home (Sic.), check the horoscope and hope that the present and future at least is good on the net.
• Go to gmail and check all the new irrelevant mails that monster throws out as search.
• Open the official mail id and know beforehand that boss will surely not taken any decision on the mail that you sent him 4 days back.
• Open orkut and scrap all the half lings that are on your friend list.
• Open icicidirect and see how your scrips are doing.
• Then open all the bank accounts and hope that some billionaire ship tycoon in Greece who has no children found out that you are genetically related to him and deposits about 300billion dollars.
• Then wait for the pitiful co workers to turn up who jus don’t seem to like to talk in any other language than Bengali.
• Eat the most wonderful tea, courtesy the client.
• Look at every woman who passes by and think of a statement that suits her.
• Close yourself from the rest of the world, Start listening to music.
• Read all the silly documents that you have managed to seek and save all your life.
• Go to annapuarana and eat at 1.30 sharp
• Have the next wonderful cup of coffee, courtesy again the client.(some best coffees and teas come down south)
• Then do the google till bank account part again.
• Start to think of leaving at 4 sharp.
• Start packing the bags by 5.30 sharp.
• Do the google to icici part by 6.30.
• Take the 7 service again and go till RS Puram to meet hari.
• You know he’s gonna be late so try and hog some ice creams in bon bon.
• Meet up with the guys by around 8.30 ish and start the debate on where and what to eat.
• Eat and go home by 11.

Whoever said time is precious should try and take some time from me for free. Every passing day seems to be like floating in outer space in search of a galaxy that was lost some 1000 light years ago. End of this sojourn im mostly gonna end up as philosophical and irrititable like Aristotle or Socrates. Worse I guess this routines gonna continue for a loooonnnggg time.

The Covenant

I did go to the movie expecting it to be in an interesting thriller/horror genre, what it finally turned out to be was a bunch of good looking teens in the shortest of clothes in ill edited action scenes, no screenplay and the worst possible emotional dialogues(sic.).

I always believe that the first impression is the best impression. The first scene did start of as expected, amazingly choreographed sequence with an interesting background score called “More human than human” by White Zombie. I have always been a fan of heavy metal music and I have this new found fascination for something called punk rock. This is that sort of a song that hits you hard and makes your skin stand at its end. Add the sequence to it; this is not a scene to be missed.

The rest of the movie is not even worth talking about.

Well, the story goes like this. In the 1600’s few families from Ipswich run away for their lives from England and settle down in America, guess for what? They are witches dumbo. So they have this treaty or covenant or whatever in which they decide that they shut their mouth and not use their powers. So there is this black sheep family that breaches this code of conduct and the present descendant decides to show off his powers and become the strongest of them all by taking all of the hero’s powers (you jus need to say “I give all my powers to…..”’, just like you sign a will, simple). The good witches don’t like it; the hero fights the villain, kills him, and takes the girl, end of story.

These seven lines take 1.3hrs to be represented in the movie.ywaaannnn….

I sometimes admire the story telling capabilities of these directors. I recommend that they include a separate category in the Oscars every year for such movies. Suggestions for the names are most welcome.

Confusion

Something that I read in the telegraph in Kolkata.One on “Dada” returning back to competitive cricket, being as tough as he has always been and the other on confusion.

Champions aren't made in gyms. Champions are made from something they have deep inside them-a desire, a dream, and a vision. They have to have last-minute stamina, they have to be a little bit faster, they have to have the skill & the will. But the will must be stronger than the skill.
Only a man who knows what it is like to be defeated can reach down to the bottom of his soul & come up with the extra ounce of power it takes to win when the match is even.

Confusion is a result of conclusions. If you have a conclusion already & then life appears as something else, you are confused. Don’t fix life, but drop your conclusions.

Well the first one was said by probably the toughest sportsman ever, the living legend Mohammed Ali. A man who I got to know about first during my 12^th standard and whose will power has never ceased to amaze me. He has been through race subjugation, Alzheimer’s and many other traumas and still arose like a unicorn from its ashes. A source of inspiration for many a black American during the late 70s and 80s and probably the most uncelebrated of all the anti racists. The man was treated a true hero upon his return to Kentucky, was given the city keys. Yet the devotion he had to his brethren made him do an unimaginable thing. How many would have chucked an Olympic medal into oblivion coz he & his race was insulted, remember the medals those days had lots of real gold in them unlike today. A genius of a boxer, the butterfly, as he was called because like the insect he flutters around hitting when he needs to and tiring his opponent into submission.

The words are not only apt for dada, but many among us who have to go through some of the toughest times and yet find THAT inner self that makes us go further, more stronger than ever, more determined to achieve the impossible. Not many people can cope up with defeat on their faces everyday, not many will like to keep on facing defeats, yet living to fight for it another day.

You always have the option of either choosing to live or die. And in dying you can chose to fight and die or to commit suicide. It’s better to fight it out, know what you are worth and die rather than being a coward and taking the easier way out. This is true in every case. Our day to day work, our family life, in relationships, almost every second we fight within ourselves. Take for example our body, it’s in war with millions of bacteria every millisecond, yet the moment we lose our will, we find ourselves being thrown into a hapless world of doctors, test reports and dosages. As the man said, it’s only a matter of will.

The second was supposedly by a Zen master (was in the Tarot column). I don’t know why iam putting it down here. It just sounded quite logical to me. True, the japs always had a practical way to life.

The Supreme Knowledge

The Supreme Lord Said:
"Those who worship gods go to gods. Those who worship ancestors go their ancestors. Those who worship the elements go to the elements. But those who worship Me come to Me only."[Chapter 9 Verse 25]
"Whatever that is offered to me with great devotion whether it is a leaf, a flower, a fruit or water, that offering of the pure soul I accept."[Chapter 9 Verse 26]
"O Kaunteya, whatever you do, whatever you eat, whatever you offer or give away, whatever penances you perform, O Kaunteya, offer all that to Me."[Chapter 9 Verse 27]
"Thus established in the yoga of renunciation you will become free from the bondage of karma caused by the fruits of good and bad actions and, being liberated, you will come to Me."[Chapter 9 Verse 28]
"I am equally situated in all beings. There is none who is particularly hateful to me or dearer to Me. But those who worship Me with devotion I am in them and they are in Me."[Chapter 9 Verse 29]
"Even if a man of sinful conduct worships Me with undisturbed devotion, he should be regarded as a saintly person because he is has made the right resolve."[Chapter 9 Verse 30]
"Such a person promptly becomes a righteous soul and attains eternal peace. O Kaunteya, know for sure that My devotees shall never perish."[Chapter 9 Verse 31]
"O Partha, by taking refuge in Me, even those born of sinful wombs, women, vaishyas, sudras also attain the highest state."[Chapter 9 Verse 32]

The Path of Karma

Said the Supreme Lord:
"O Sinless one(Arjuna), I declared two kinds of worship in the world before. One is the path of knowledge pursued by the Sankhyas and the other, the path of action meant for men of action."[Chapter 3 Verse 3]
"But O Arjuna, he is better who, regulating his senses by his mind, unattached, begins karma yoga with his organs of action."[Chapter 3 Verse 7]
"Therefore do your prescribed work, for doing some work is better than doing no work at all. Without work it is not possible to even maintain the physical body."[Chapter 3 Verse 8]
"Works in this world can cause bondage unless done with a sense of sacrifice. Therefore, O son of Kunti, perform your actions for the sake of sacrifice only, free from attachment."[Chapter 3 Verse 9]
"In the beginning, at the time of creation, Brahma created people along with sacrifice and declared that by performing sacrifices they would become more prosperous and also that sacrifice would be their wish fulfilling Kamadhenu"[Chapter 3 Verse 10]

One of the greatest minds ever...
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Being Single..and loving it!!

In the adjective form single means :

• Not accompanied by another or others; solitary.
• Separate from others; individual and distinct.
• Honest; undisguised: a single adoration.
• Unmarried.
• Lacking a partner.
• Relating to the unmarried state: enjoys the single life.

And In the noun form :

• One that is separate and individual.
• An unmarried person.

In both forms it is utterly very depressing to know what it means.But the way i look at it,it has its advantages.For example :

• More freedom and independence
• More control over your time
• More control over your money
• Not having to tolerate another’s annoying habits
• No emotional roller coaster rides
• Ability to become aware of who you are and what u want to do
  

I bet every single married/un married/committed person will agree with me on the above points.Im not an advocate on being single for life.But its more enjoyable this way,atleast i can say this by looking at the far more unlucky souls who have crossed the barrier of being legitimate singletons.

I have a very close friend of mine who is a single mother.The kids not hers & iv never asked her how she got it.(She said dont ask,jus trust me!!).The kids so adorable and the family goes at lengths to support her.
I know what all she had gone thru to keep her,after all being single middle class south indian will subject you to so much prejudice.
Let me say one thing to her before i start of with the rest,iam proud of u,iv never seen some one as strong as u,im lucky that we got to know each other in odd circumstances and became such good friends.Ur what most women dream of becoming these days.

We constantly discuss about the +ves and -ves of being single and i always remind her to move out of that status.EOD we both get to have some more advantages of being single.Here goes:

• Flirt with every guy/girl that you want without apology.
• The constant feeling that you are being watched & adored by every other PYT's(this could be my misconception though).
• I emphasize on this,spend all the money that u have on urself,max to ur parents or friends.
• The unique feeling of being self content on doing everything without depending on others.

And as my "WISE"(she wanted me to mention this) sis-in-law said "I envy you your single-status travel experience...enjoy it while you can cos all too soon, you will be double, triple, etc","There is a certain charm to being single and carefree...gosh!".

But there is always a dull side to the brighter things,u cant get into discos/nightclubs(unless ur a girl,they get everything!!),suddenly you find urself being alone & have panic attacks(jus kiddn),you start envying the not so good looking guy with the wow so looking girl under his arms,u start observing people giving u 'that' strange look if u go to cinemas alone,killing time gets to be so painful,u spend magnanimously on every odd thing.
Who cares??its good to be single and eligible..cheers!!

Mmmm...

The thing that i love saying the most..."Mmmmm...."

There is an uniqueness in Kolkata that the cities i have seen in India dont have and lack to the extreme.Everything happens in such an articulate and patient manner.I mean do these bongs ever get angry?(exclude sourav ganguly..pls)They would possibly be the epitome of patience and discipline.Where else can u see such bumper to bumper,quick(F1 style) traffic other than here and hardly have an expletive uttered from the drivers mouth?If these had been any of the other metros or the metro-to-be Bangaluru(tht sucks!!) there would have been atleast half a dozen maa ki and behan ki gaalis over the atmoshpere.& yes in my sweet tamizh,the effect is even the more unique.

This city has possibly faced the worst in terms of communal conflict in 1940-50 period and worser during the bangla independence struggle,but there seems to be this sense of togetherness and bhaichaara here that i have only seen in the mylapore and mandaveli areas of chennai.this was clearly proved when on the amazing shakespeare sarani(theatre road) on a busy evening i could hear the muezzin saying the evening prayers and everything went silent.it was magical!!

The Don!!

How can someone be the worst don?ask farhan akhtar.hes possibly made one of the most intriguing & thrilling movies ever in indian history into a knick nash of masala & style.Well maybe it is wrong to compare the original DON to this one.
I had woved not to ever see this movie,coz I knew it would be a piece of junk!but circumstances were so,I was unfortunate enough to watch it & it didn't dissapoint me.

King khan can never be baadshah bachan,priyanka can never be the svelte zeenat,& kareena?she humiliated dame helen!she was no where near her,not even in the remotest light years.

Luckily There are two saving graces.the background music is fabulous & Boman Irani .like in all the movies hes done before,he simply stole the show.Iv never been the khan liker,I love him when he dances & is at his funniest best.but a macho role is not his.hes feminish in a way.I seriously would have liked to see a much more manly hero,say arjun rampal or sanjay dutt in his place.
Yes,there is a twist worth the trouble.that's one area farhan wanted to show his touch.he's got class,he showed glimpses of it in dil chahta hai & lakshya.you could have made it better farhan,this movie shouldn't have sucked so badly..

The Market!!

I just visited as per me to this date the world's largest market place.the sudder street,new market,park street triathlon.shops shops & more shops,its such a mind boggling placeAnything on this earth,from bangles to baniyans u get everything here.

A whole street for bangles?its a sight!I wonder how they sell,women rarely wear glass bangles these days.briyani shops,clothes,eye glasses,booze & in the midst of all this fiasco the oberoi grand!& a whole square for food items.phew!

This area is predominantly muslim & they speak good urdu here.I always have thought that I can decieve people on my ethnicity.iv passed off for everything other than a tamizh.in my lifetime iv been french,marwadi,punjabi,boston returned,spanish & for the first time a 'MIAH'!I was called a miah by a hindu guy in the market.I had to laugh!a brahmin called a miah.that's university in diversity.

The visit got me wondering.why do people write?not that Im a writer par excellence or whatever.but this is what I deduced

• They live & possibly thrive in a pre defined shell
• They want to explore & express their thought
• They want to keep their vocabulary intact
• They want to say that they do something that others don't.
• They want to keep their sanity intact.

Haven't still decided where I fit in.iv always been a jerk.so its got to be more abnormal things!

& on the record i didnot buy a thing..jus had a long session of paani puri eating.