Of Friends and Girlfriends..

Guess i do have lots of time today or is it the Delhi factor??

Anyways...i have had my share of friends,some fantastic,some so..so,some i miss,many i don't,some i don' even bother about(then why are they friends?),some who are so similar that you don't even need to make any attempt to discover them( :-] ), some who you wish you got close but they never let you get there and few who you just can't tear me away from.

I do have a guilt that most of them are of the opposite gender(8:2 ratio...tsk..tsk)(or maybe its just so that people don't call me you know what).So what is a friend??

Its tough to define the word friend.We generally do make or have friends for different reasons.One who may just be a lending hand,one who you may just talk your heart out all the time,one who you would listen to all the time,one who you use just for shopping, one for gossip etc etc.

My idea of a friend is a person who stays with you, through rain and shine,who doesnt expect anything from you in return for anything that he/she may do for you,who is not you soul mate but comes somewhere close to that.A person who you neednt take any effort to know about,coz it just doesnt matter as you could just accept them like that.A person who wudnt ask you why you didnt call them or talk to them when you find someone special in your life after being as thick as blood for a long time.A person whose shoulders who you can always use when the someone special isnt there any longer.

I have had some fantastic friends and still have some fantasic ones.Probably the current set of friends with whom im in constant touch are the closest i have ever got( and yes more the girls the merrier rules apply here too).

Now we come to the next,a little bit more critical part of girl friend(a word that i have come to hate along with its male form).I think its probably the correct time to write about it(as there is a change in my life,a happy..very happy change,so wonderful that you are so lucky to be alive,thank you,a million times raised to the power of 'n' raised to 'i',shall explain later).

All the above statements remain true,but i shall add some more on what makes this relationship more special.You feel content,dont know why all,but you do feel so content in life,the person makes you privileged,you feel whatever you give to someone when returned in the so most small ways makes giving a worthwhile effort doing again and again.You now have a purpose,a goal to not be care-free.You are going to make a lot of new relatives[;)].

Maybe there are more things to add to this,but to me i think this probably gives an overall picture.

Mucho Gracias everyone..my lifes wonderful.